Dec 30, 2019
We call B.S.! Give your clients the gift of calling bullsh*t on the stories they make up about themselves and others. MSU® is when we Make Sh*t Up … when we fill in the blanks without a clue. We all have master’s degrees from this not so esteemed institution. We make assumptions and put our energy in the wrong...
Dec 23, 2019
Can you call your own timeout? As a coach, we have the power to help our clients see what’s happening when they become triggered and what’s happening in their reaction. They have a choice in how they react. Yep! They do have power in that moment—they have the power to resist a “BOOM” response they might...
Dec 19, 2019
We cringe when we hear coaches ask: “How does that make you feel?” While that’s OK. We cringe because there’s a whole lot of data to mine around emotions and experiencing them that gets a shallow treatment with questions like this. In this episode, we dive into emotions, being with them, understanding where they...
Dec 10, 2019
Coaches, get your notepads ready! You will definitely want to play along on this one. We’re breaking down one of our favorite concepts: What got you here, won’t get you there. Coaching means first getting our clients to recognize where they are, then asking the right questions to get them where they want to be. This...
Dec 3, 2019
Wherever we go, we become part of the systems that make up the crazy world around us … in the store, with our families, at the office, and—yes—on the road. For our clients and ourselves, accepting responsibility for choices we make in the system (rather than blaming everything around us), leads to tolerance. When...